My Life Lessons (so far)
Never be emotional at work. People will not look at you professionally ever again. Always stick with the facts at work. If your personal credibility is lost once, it will never recover. A job is a transactional relationship between you and your employer. You get paid to work. Not liking your work or the people you work with is no reason to not be good at your job. Everything you do at work MUST only answer at least one of these two questions. Everything else is just noise. Will doing this get me a promotion / raise / goodwill? Will doing this make my boss shine in front of her boss? Be nice and kind to the people at the bottom - Admin, IT, peons, janitors, cafeteria staff and receptionists. Don't fake it and only be kind when it directly benefits you. Over the long term, people see it for what it is. HR’s only responsibility is to look for company’s good. Your HR may be a nice person, but her and your professional alignments will always be at odds. Everyone you will ever talk to ou